Is there a worrier in your life? I am not a worrier, not any longer. I think I blew out my worry chip back in my early 20s, when chronic pain and disability became my destiny. But my Handsome Man is a marathon worrier! You name it and he'll worry about it. He knows it doesn't help but he can't stop himself :(
I think a large part of my lack of worries is that almost none of the issues in my life are under my control. My income is fixed, my schedule is regular, I live alone, I kick drama to the curb. Even visits with HM are based more on his availability than mine. I made the life I wanted, such as I was able, and it's as much to my liking as possible. Even my feral tabby turned out to be a lap cat :D
Do you have a good way of coping with worrying? I tell HM that he can always talk to me but he usually doesn't (he worries about that, too). He reads this so maybe someone's advice can help him relax.